What is the Ronald McDonald House?
Honestly, I couldn't have answered this question with much confidence in the past. I had often seen the collection container at the counter or drive-thru at every McDonalds and thought it was just another charity that I wasn't interested in being a part of.
I never really knew what the Ronald McDonald House was until my life changed dramatically on November 4, 2016.
That was the day my family found out that my daughter had been living with a brain tumor for several years and needed immediate brain surgery. This came as a huge shock to all of us, and we were completely unsure of what the next weeks and possibly years would bring. We were rushed from our home in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina to Medical University South Carolina Health in Charleston (MUSC). We had no idea what the future would hold.
During the first day of trying to figure everything out, my wife reached out to the Ronald McDonald House and secured a room. This allowed my wife or myself a comfortable bed, private shower, meals, a place to cry privately and a little bit of peace of mind during this awful time. Not only were we welcomed, the House staff members continually reminded us that they were always there if we needed anything.
The next few weeks were certainly not enjoyable, but having a place that we could essentially call home for our time at MUSC gave us a place to get away for a little while. Surrounded by other families going through similar tragic events gave us hope—especially as we began to speak with them and watch them leave with good results. After getting comfortable enough with the staff, I met two of the people who helped run the place. These women were the most compassionate and friendly people I could have ever dreamed of meeting. We quickly became friends, and we still keep in touch. I hope to never lose their friendship.
What is the Ronald McDonald House?
I can answer that question now. It is a home full of people who are all going through similar tough times. It is place you never want to have to use, but you couldn't be more grateful to have it once you need it. It is a nonprofit organization that isn't in it for the money but for the peace of mind and comfort of families who need it. The House is filled with the most amazing staff and volunteers I have ever witnessed. The Ronald McDonald House is where I will donate my time and money from here on out.
You can help parents and children find comfort and a sense of normalcy during traumatic times. Contact Alix Tew at 843-723-7957 Ext. 303 or alix@rmhcharleston.org.